This past October, I came across a local inventor mom, Melissa Desrochers, thanks to social media. Her idea was simple and intriguing: a food pick inspired by necessity. Her son was a picky eater. Toothpicks worked, but she didn't like the idea of handing over a splinter of wood to her toddler. With that, Pick Ease was born. Once we connected, Melissa sent me a few Pick Ease to try. I was very eager to use them with my own picky eater.
From an occupational therapist's view point, this product has a lot of great features including a fun and friendly sticker design and a 1" by 3/16" circular area to promote developing grasp patterns. The unique design has a stopper for the tips of the fingers to help remind children not to use a fisted grasp around the utensil. For children with typical cognitive development, Pick Ease could be a great transition tool from finger feeding to pierced food utensil feeding. However, even though the tip is considered rounded, mine was still pretty sharp. Because of it's small (and sharp) conical end, children, but especially those with developmental delays, need to be closely supervised with this product. Impulsive or ataxic movements could cause accidental injury when self feeding. With that being said, the tip can pierce a variety of soft and firm foods, especially those that have been cut into small pieces. Crispy foods do not work, they crumble beneath the force. Pick Ease could also be used to help with pacing. One can only get so much food onto the Pick Ease. When only given a little bit of food at a time on the plate, a child may learn to take his or her time.
From a mom's perspective: it's really unique. It's dishwasher safe, though the decals are starting to come off. And it's BPA free. My Mudge is a relatively picky eater. He thought these were fun to use. And though he wouldn't try the nugget with it, he enjoyed poking at his plated meal. Combined with his Fun with Food Fred Plate, (another local RI distributor) and the old school mini Tupperware pitcher with 1 ounce cups (available on eBay and Amazon), the Pick Ease added another option to encourage new foods, along with his "Trying Something New Star" on his Star Chart.
Melissa is always posting creative ways to present tasty, healthy foods for the finicky kid on social media. She has also shared a free, downloadable eBook "29 Healthy Kids Snacks" through her website since fun presentations can help increase the picky eater's edible repertoire. So if you are looking to try something new because you have been struggling with a picky eater in the house, the $8.95 cost for a set of two may be an option for you, without breaking the plate.
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Saturday, December 27, 2014
Monday, January 6, 2014
Inside the Book with My Big Brother Bobby author Rebecca Dauer
In December
of 2013, My Big Brother Bobby was
self published and released by new author, Rebecca Dauer , illustrated by AnnieZimanski. I have known Rebecca
since I was little, so I was eager to get a hand on a copy of her first
children’s book.
My Big Brother Bobby isn’t your typical children’s
book. It is more like a
communication bridge between parents, social workers, OTs, psychologists and
children who are dealing with emotional issues within the home, specifically those
living with siblings with angry outbursts.
After reading
the story, sharing it with my children, watching and listening to their
responses, I reached out to Rebecca to see if she would participate in a little Q
and A session.
OTMommy: When
I read this story to my youngest son, he really related to the main character,
the little girl. My eldest related to Bobby, with embarrassment. The
story hits close to home. What was the inspiration of this story?
R.D: I had
the idea to write a book since I was a little girl but never knew how to go
about writing it. My inspiration was from the countless stories from friends
and family who told me about a sibling, an uncle, or a mother with stories of a
"monster". I searched for children's books on this topic and couldn't
find any. I felt morally responsible to give siblings going through tough times
a voice.
A few months
ago, I was sitting on the subway on my way to work and the idea hit me and I
started writing. My goal is to help children that are so often unheard. My Big Brother Bobby provides an outlet
for siblings to be heard and understood as well as for the parents to have a
better understanding as to how their children might interpret experiences
differently.
The book also
provides a different perspective to the family member with the outburst. As a
child you see, feel, and interpret emotions differently. It's important to see
the experience from each child's point of view. The first person narrative
provides perspective on what the child might go through during these times. As
embarrassing as it might be to the child with the outburst, it is important for
growth and understanding. The story came from the heart and I hope it is
apparent throughout the book.
OTMommy: How
did your family and friends feel about you writing this?
R.D.: My
friends were extremely supportive and helped me every step of the way. The book
wouldn't have been as great if it wasn't for them. I have a few friends and
family members in the field who were able to give me advice on wording and calm
down plan. There were a few people that were reluctant at first. But once I showed them the book, they were supportive and knew that I could help a lot of people with it.
OTMommy: I
noticed this story is done in the first person. What was the reason
behind not naming the little girl?
R.D.: I
wanted to let the reader be able to identify with the character and I felt that
not naming her would give more power to the story.
OTMommy: I
really love the bonus features that give children and adults a way to bridge a
communication gap. It was very emotional listening to my children answer
them honestly. What made you put in the discussion questions, calm down
plan and the identifying feelings pages?
R.D.: My good
friend, Jennifer Zimmer works with children with autism. After she read
the manuscript she suggested adding the calm down plan. It is a great addition
to the book.
I added the
identifying feelings and questions at the end of the book to help identify
feelings and open up conversation to parents to what their kids might be
holding in. If you provide the examples for children, they are more inclined to
show and explain how they feel.
OTMommy: What
do you hope others to gain from this book?
R.D.: I hope
to reach as many children as possible. Send copies to schools, hospitals, and
programs across the US. My hope is for children to relate to the characters and
know that they are not alone and there are resources available to them. I hope
this book provides an outlet for conversation and understanding for all parties
involved (as tough as it might be).
OTMommy: Have
you considered writing any more books?
R.D.: It was a
lot of fun, start to finish. I enjoyed learning the process and working with so
many talented people. I wouldn't have been able to do it without Amy Betz, the
Editor and Annie Zimanski who's beautifully warm illustrations brought my words
to life. I would definitely consider writing another book in the future.
My Big Brother Bobby is a wonderful resource for parents and
those working with children to help kids communicate their feelings about being
around someone with a “monster in their belly”. It is available through Amazon for $8.99. You can
also visit http://www.mybigbrotherbobby.com to discover more about the author,
Rebecca Dauer.
Saturday, October 19, 2013
Kiwi Crate, the busy mom's answer to arts and crafts
I love Kiwi Crate. Flat out, this has been one of the best investments in a monthly subscriptions I have ever done. Way better than Highlights or Ranger Rick. It takes the thinking and preparation out of arts and crafts time. For me, I have to be on my toes of creativity at work everyday, and some (or many) times I just don't have the where-with-all or energy to come up with things to do with the boys.
So well over a year ago, I came across Kiwi Crate in some magazine, I think it may have been Family Circle. On the whim, I explored the website and ordered a single month activity box. From the moment that little green box came in, the boys and I have been hooked.
Each month, a box filled with materials and instructions for two activities arrives at our doorstep. The boys spot it and scream, "THE KIWI CRATE IS HERE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" Once inside, I am guaranteed at least and hour (if not two) of engaged, happy kids. Yes, I am there too. It is a time that I can just play with them during the hands on crafts and not have to worry about instructing on each step. Kiwi Crate provides the how-to with easy to read steps and picture supports. My oldest, now 8, can easily read the guide to the youngest, 5 and they can generally do quite a bit independently.
There is a mess-o-meter that helps prepare me for how much of one there will be. But it is never too much for us to handle. And I am always surprised at the amount of left over materials that I do have to keep for a later date.
A monthly subscription ranges from $16.95 to $19.95 a month, plus either a full extra cost for a sibling (or just 9.95 for extra materials per month). I'm not saying it is cheap, but for the time that it would take me to go to Michael's or AC Moore, come up with an idea and materials list, organize it, and execute it, I would be close to that cost and more importantly my wits end. Like I said, its an investment, but one well worth it.
I have recommended it to friends and parents of my students to help increase playful engagement, without the thinking factor. Sometimes we forget just how to play with our kids between school, soccer, bed, and bath. Plus there is the added bonus of it being an educational product. It addresses sensory, fine motor, hand eye coordination, math, language, science but most importantly, persistence.
I laugh to myself because it took me nearly 18 months to write a review, not because I didn't want to but because there was so much I could say about it. So after the boys finished their October crate this morning, and are currently playing with their Glow Creatures, I figured I would take this moment to scream at the top of the mountain: "THE KIWI CRATE IS HERE!!!"
So well over a year ago, I came across Kiwi Crate in some magazine, I think it may have been Family Circle. On the whim, I explored the website and ordered a single month activity box. From the moment that little green box came in, the boys and I have been hooked.
Each month, a box filled with materials and instructions for two activities arrives at our doorstep. The boys spot it and scream, "THE KIWI CRATE IS HERE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" Once inside, I am guaranteed at least and hour (if not two) of engaged, happy kids. Yes, I am there too. It is a time that I can just play with them during the hands on crafts and not have to worry about instructing on each step. Kiwi Crate provides the how-to with easy to read steps and picture supports. My oldest, now 8, can easily read the guide to the youngest, 5 and they can generally do quite a bit independently.
There is a mess-o-meter that helps prepare me for how much of one there will be. But it is never too much for us to handle. And I am always surprised at the amount of left over materials that I do have to keep for a later date.
A monthly subscription ranges from $16.95 to $19.95 a month, plus either a full extra cost for a sibling (or just 9.95 for extra materials per month). I'm not saying it is cheap, but for the time that it would take me to go to Michael's or AC Moore, come up with an idea and materials list, organize it, and execute it, I would be close to that cost and more importantly my wits end. Like I said, its an investment, but one well worth it.
I have recommended it to friends and parents of my students to help increase playful engagement, without the thinking factor. Sometimes we forget just how to play with our kids between school, soccer, bed, and bath. Plus there is the added bonus of it being an educational product. It addresses sensory, fine motor, hand eye coordination, math, language, science but most importantly, persistence.
I laugh to myself because it took me nearly 18 months to write a review, not because I didn't want to but because there was so much I could say about it. So after the boys finished their October crate this morning, and are currently playing with their Glow Creatures, I figured I would take this moment to scream at the top of the mountain: "THE KIWI CRATE IS HERE!!!"
Saturday, March 24, 2012
For Truth, Justice and the Sickly
I was thinking the other day about I haven't been inspired to write. And I don't know if it is inspiration versus laziness, but call it what you will.
Over the past few months, I have switched my "free time" to training time as I prep for my Tough Mudder. Running, exercising, and whatnot. The boys are so amused by this. They ask to go for runs or they claim to do their "exercises", which incidentally if it what I look like during my work outs, thank god I have blinds on my windows....
And for the most part, most of us have been healthy. But with this unseasonably warm weather here, the germs never died. So now I am home with one recovering and one beginning illness children, fighting fevers and boogers with my Super Mommy Powers.
A working mom by day, Super Mommy dons her illness patrol patch, in hopes to combat any of Viral's men from entering her dwelling. On her utility belt is a box of tissues, hand sanitizer and a plastic bag to help fight the crime of the Boogie Man. With her stock of magic medicines, Benadryl and Ibuprofen, forever dwindling, Super Mommy must travel through sleet, snow, rain, and the best sunny days the Earth has to offer to retrieve them.
But reality kicks in. Get the barf bowl. Hopefully not to be used. Fill 17 trashcans with snotty tissues. Wash hands until dry and cracked. Eat mac and cheese for breakfast, because frankly you just don't care. Have the children play outside to get some "fresh air" but really to wear them out so they will actually take a nap. Watch way too much TV and play way too many electronic games. Don't put make up on, because I know I am not leaving the house. Wear puhpuns (or pichou as the French Canadiens call them) and robes. Laugh hysterically as your child blows caterpillars out his nostrils, landing in multiple piles on the floor.
Ah, the joys of motherhood. Luckily, I actually kind of enjoy it.
Over the past few months, I have switched my "free time" to training time as I prep for my Tough Mudder. Running, exercising, and whatnot. The boys are so amused by this. They ask to go for runs or they claim to do their "exercises", which incidentally if it what I look like during my work outs, thank god I have blinds on my windows....
And for the most part, most of us have been healthy. But with this unseasonably warm weather here, the germs never died. So now I am home with one recovering and one beginning illness children, fighting fevers and boogers with my Super Mommy Powers.
A working mom by day, Super Mommy dons her illness patrol patch, in hopes to combat any of Viral's men from entering her dwelling. On her utility belt is a box of tissues, hand sanitizer and a plastic bag to help fight the crime of the Boogie Man. With her stock of magic medicines, Benadryl and Ibuprofen, forever dwindling, Super Mommy must travel through sleet, snow, rain, and the best sunny days the Earth has to offer to retrieve them.
But reality kicks in. Get the barf bowl. Hopefully not to be used. Fill 17 trashcans with snotty tissues. Wash hands until dry and cracked. Eat mac and cheese for breakfast, because frankly you just don't care. Have the children play outside to get some "fresh air" but really to wear them out so they will actually take a nap. Watch way too much TV and play way too many electronic games. Don't put make up on, because I know I am not leaving the house. Wear puhpuns (or pichou as the French Canadiens call them) and robes. Laugh hysterically as your child blows caterpillars out his nostrils, landing in multiple piles on the floor.
Ah, the joys of motherhood. Luckily, I actually kind of enjoy it.
Monday, January 16, 2012
In case of emergency, don't look up from your game...
When I work out around my children, I don't expect them or want them to be in the middle of what I am doing. However, I would like them to acknowledge my falling ungracefulthermo the ground, rolling around and writhing (albeit briefly)in pain. Nope, not one glance up from thier electronic devices when this happened this morning.
So it got me thinking. God forbid I had a serious problem, would either of them notice?
I could see either of these following scenarios happen:
1. When they get up to pee, they step on me on thier way to the bathroom. Then, on their way back, they ask me for a snack. And when I don't get their snack, because I am unconscious lying on the floor, pursue the request with a louder version of "mom!" still while getting thru Bowser's Castle. Then finally call for help...Only after their DSi has run out of batteries.
2. Only after they begin arguing over the name of the Pokemon they each are going to pretend to be, leading to a battle of Nun uh and yeah Huhs, and some toys thrown, and find me unresponsive to their heated arguments, that they might come looking for me broken in the living room.
Maybe I should test out these theories.....
So it got me thinking. God forbid I had a serious problem, would either of them notice?
I could see either of these following scenarios happen:
1. When they get up to pee, they step on me on thier way to the bathroom. Then, on their way back, they ask me for a snack. And when I don't get their snack, because I am unconscious lying on the floor, pursue the request with a louder version of "mom!" still while getting thru Bowser's Castle. Then finally call for help...Only after their DSi has run out of batteries.
2. Only after they begin arguing over the name of the Pokemon they each are going to pretend to be, leading to a battle of Nun uh and yeah Huhs, and some toys thrown, and find me unresponsive to their heated arguments, that they might come looking for me broken in the living room.
Maybe I should test out these theories.....
Tuesday, January 10, 2012
No, Sam don't eat.
I have determined we live in a land of reverse psychology. Or rather, just the little one does.
See, he is determined to do the opposite of whatever Dad tells him.
"No, Mudge, don't eat your pasta so you can shrink."
Devilish smirk, then he takes a great big bite.
"No, Mudge, don't finish your almonds, I want them."
Evil giggle followed by devouring 4 of them.
"No, Mudge, don't eat that broccoli so you don't grow. I don't want to have to buy the next size up."
Maniacle laugh followed by shoving it in his mouth.
We reflected on this one night. First, this has worked greatly to our benefit. Mudge is not a big eater and supper often takes an hour or more to get him to finish parts of his meal. He dilly dallies and generally fiddle farts and putzes around his dish as if he were working it like a maze. We would get so frustrated. But then the Ah Ha moment happened. The little shit always does the opposite of what Daddy tells him. Bingo! So dinner now is back to being more goofy and filling for the Mudge. And often it reminds us of the scene in A Chirstmas Story where Mom gets Ralphie's brother to eat his supper like a piggie.
I guess what it really comes down to is parents will do whatever it takes to get their children to do what they want,even if it takes a little verbal finagling.
See, he is determined to do the opposite of whatever Dad tells him.
"No, Mudge, don't eat your pasta so you can shrink."
Devilish smirk, then he takes a great big bite.
"No, Mudge, don't finish your almonds, I want them."
Evil giggle followed by devouring 4 of them.
"No, Mudge, don't eat that broccoli so you don't grow. I don't want to have to buy the next size up."
Maniacle laugh followed by shoving it in his mouth.
We reflected on this one night. First, this has worked greatly to our benefit. Mudge is not a big eater and supper often takes an hour or more to get him to finish parts of his meal. He dilly dallies and generally fiddle farts and putzes around his dish as if he were working it like a maze. We would get so frustrated. But then the Ah Ha moment happened. The little shit always does the opposite of what Daddy tells him. Bingo! So dinner now is back to being more goofy and filling for the Mudge. And often it reminds us of the scene in A Chirstmas Story where Mom gets Ralphie's brother to eat his supper like a piggie.
I guess what it really comes down to is parents will do whatever it takes to get their children to do what they want,even if it takes a little verbal finagling.
Saturday, December 31, 2011
2011: What a long strange trip it's been....
As the year comes to a close today, I can't help but look back on the good, the bad, and the ugly.
The boys have kept us on our game all year. They have challenged us to be the not-quite-the-best parents, and sometimes we felt like we may not have succeeded. Then sometimes there were times we gave ourselves the pats on the back that we greatly deserved.
There were a lot of great moments during the past 365 days. Riding bikes without training wheels. Saying goodbye to "baby shows" like Dora the Explorer. Swimming without floaties. Glued chins. Bloody faces. You know, the good stuff.
One of my most memorable events of the year was when the butterfly landed on Boog's forehead. The look on his face is forever etched in my memory. It was precious; it was joy.
And though the year may have been filled with stress, I like to think back on this year still as a year filled with joyful experiences. And I hope that 2012 will bring the same feeling. On that note, I wish you a safe and healthy Happy New Year filled with the ability to laugh at the worst times and cry at the best.
The boys have kept us on our game all year. They have challenged us to be the not-quite-the-best parents, and sometimes we felt like we may not have succeeded. Then sometimes there were times we gave ourselves the pats on the back that we greatly deserved.
There were a lot of great moments during the past 365 days. Riding bikes without training wheels. Saying goodbye to "baby shows" like Dora the Explorer. Swimming without floaties. Glued chins. Bloody faces. You know, the good stuff.
One of my most memorable events of the year was when the butterfly landed on Boog's forehead. The look on his face is forever etched in my memory. It was precious; it was joy.
And though the year may have been filled with stress, I like to think back on this year still as a year filled with joyful experiences. And I hope that 2012 will bring the same feeling. On that note, I wish you a safe and healthy Happy New Year filled with the ability to laugh at the worst times and cry at the best.
Tuesday, December 6, 2011
The House of Many Candies...
I guess with Kyle working on the bathroom, I too had the urge to renovate. So on the way home, I was inspired to start my own a little do-it-yourself project: A Gingerbread House. I have no shame in saying I purchased a kit for $10 at the Family Dollar.
So while he was scraping and plastering, I was constructing the cottage with my own tasty caulk. Once put together, and held with my hands, the boys were able to decorate. I have to say, they had better self control than I think I have. They stuck to just a few pieces to eat, since we did do it before supper.
With just a few minor collapses, the house finally was finished, the boys licked their pasty hands and we all enjoyed the final product of "B and S Services" (now including construction and home decorating).
But if you are one of my gluten free friends, you don't have to lose out on the fun too. A and J Bakery in Cranston, Rhode Island created The Allergen Friendly Gingerbread House Kit. And even better, you can order one and have it sent to you. Just remember this time of year is busy so make sure to call soon if you want one :)
Wednesday, November 30, 2011
Candy: the real meaning of the advent calendar....
The kids have been eyeing this hand painted concoction of mine since I brought it out on Saturday. They even went so far as to sneak a peak, to find.... nothing in the numbered doors.
"Mom, where's the candy?"
Well, guys, the candy doesn't arrive until December 1st. Then we can count down the days till Christmas.
Since then, they have been counting down till the official candy countdown for the Santa Advent Calendar can begin.
I bought this thing 3 years ago from A.C. Moore and painted it. Nothing special by any means. In fact the top is broken. And Kyle makes fun of me for the sequence I wrote the numbers in, joking with me that I did it in the Hebrew fashion- backwards. Hey, I just followed the example. Regardless, the boys know what it is for. They know what it contains. And the anticipation is killing them.
So now as the boys fall into a welcomed sleep, I am filling up the little celebratory boxes with Kisses and mini hershey bars. Because the moment they wake up tomorrow, they will descend on me like vultures to a fresh kill, pecking at me until I let them open the treasured door of bliss in honor of the official countdown to Christmas.
God, I love the holidays.
"Mom, where's the candy?"
Well, guys, the candy doesn't arrive until December 1st. Then we can count down the days till Christmas.
Since then, they have been counting down till the official candy countdown for the Santa Advent Calendar can begin.
I bought this thing 3 years ago from A.C. Moore and painted it. Nothing special by any means. In fact the top is broken. And Kyle makes fun of me for the sequence I wrote the numbers in, joking with me that I did it in the Hebrew fashion- backwards. Hey, I just followed the example. Regardless, the boys know what it is for. They know what it contains. And the anticipation is killing them.
So now as the boys fall into a welcomed sleep, I am filling up the little celebratory boxes with Kisses and mini hershey bars. Because the moment they wake up tomorrow, they will descend on me like vultures to a fresh kill, pecking at me until I let them open the treasured door of bliss in honor of the official countdown to Christmas.
God, I love the holidays.
Tuesday, November 29, 2011
better than average
As I was reading my second installment of the Spirited Child series, I came across a startling number: parents spend an average of 22 minutes interacting with their kids. 22! That seems horribly low, especially if you drive in the car with them. "Mom, he's touching me..." "Mom, I'm thirsty..." "Mom, I have to pee..." Right there is at least 5 minutes of interacting, telling them to knock it off, wait till we get home, and you have to hold it, unless you want to pee on the side of the road.
But seriously, 22 minutes. As half of a pair of working parents, I know how difficult it can be to make sure all are accounted for, fed, bathed, and nurtured. I have to remind myself, stop and smell the dirt (because roses just aren't a boy's cup of tea). But I know I am lucky too. I work school hours. I get to bring them to school and pick them up. I get to help them earn their "getting ready for school on time" star. Mudge's "eating your supper" star, and their "can you guys stop it with the Nuh uh and Yah huh" star. Ok, the last one not so much. But you get my drift. I can't imagine only spending 22 minutes with my kids on a daily basis. I do that just trying to get the two of them ready in the morning.
Plus, I can't imagine all of the odd things I would miss out on like how Boog has created a list of names for his soon-to-be-discovered dinosaurs, or how Mudge insists on playing chess like the big boys. Though there may be those days where the oomph isn't available in its caffeinated form, on most days, I hope to be better than average. I want to be an over achiever. I'm shooting for 23!
But seriously, 22 minutes. As half of a pair of working parents, I know how difficult it can be to make sure all are accounted for, fed, bathed, and nurtured. I have to remind myself, stop and smell the dirt (because roses just aren't a boy's cup of tea). But I know I am lucky too. I work school hours. I get to bring them to school and pick them up. I get to help them earn their "getting ready for school on time" star. Mudge's "eating your supper" star, and their "can you guys stop it with the Nuh uh and Yah huh" star. Ok, the last one not so much. But you get my drift. I can't imagine only spending 22 minutes with my kids on a daily basis. I do that just trying to get the two of them ready in the morning.
Plus, I can't imagine all of the odd things I would miss out on like how Boog has created a list of names for his soon-to-be-discovered dinosaurs, or how Mudge insists on playing chess like the big boys. Though there may be those days where the oomph isn't available in its caffeinated form, on most days, I hope to be better than average. I want to be an over achiever. I'm shooting for 23!
Sunday, November 20, 2011
I am really thankful for my eReader....
I struggle with parenting. I do.
"I had this fantasy that my child and I would walk hand in hand across the park. Little did i know that when he got mad he would spit on me...." - a parent.
I try to be a good parent. I try to be active with them. But when I have days that I have been kicked, spat, hit, and screamed at. I wonder what the hell has possessed my child? What the hell am I doing wrong? Just, What the Hell????? And when those days happen, I tend to retreat and spend less time since so much energy was used to stay sane.
So after a day like that, instead of running to Barnes and Noble in tears like last time, I picked up my iPad and ordered another book by Mary Sheedy Kurcinka, Kids, Parents and Power Struggles. I needed to. With the "success" of reading Raising the Spirited Child, providing me insight on temperament, mood, and other fine qualities of a spirited child, I hoped maybe she could help me.
And now into the third chapter, I laugh. God, she gets it. There are others out there who do the same thing. But more importantly, it is NOT about the kid, it is about how I am reacting. I need(ed) to start reflecting on how my sensitive child is picking up on my stresses and body language.
I will let you know how it goes. Thank god for instant gratification of a Nook program.
Sunday, November 13, 2011
#11 Boog Date Night
We were blessed last night with a mini Boog date night. My mother had her own special night with the Mudge and we took advantage of that.
It was a Daddy, Mommy and Boog night. He emphatically chose bowling. But first, dinner at Applebee's where he was able to imbibe in a little Sprite at supper. And that always makes a meal that much cooler. Then off to Town Hall Lanes in Johnston, RI for a round of bowling, they really have a pretty family friendly atmosphere.
I loved the way Boog's head tilted as the bowling ball rolled towards the pins as if it were to will it in the direction he leaned. Every time. It was so cute. He would get so excited to knock them down, run (sometimes fall) and hit me up with a double high five. Daddy didn't get them, since he was flat out too good at bowling. It was a more of a competition for 2nd place between Boogie and me. Thank god for bumpers, not just for him, but for me. I really do suck at bowling. But when I actually tried to suck so he could win, I knocked down more pins. Go figure.
For us, when you have more than one child, we don't always get to spend that special time with them, without the sibling. It makes it worth while to see their joy and silliness without the interference of sibling rivalry. Though they are the best of friends, they can be the worst of enemies. And for the rare instance to have a little fun with just one at a time, I am grateful.
It was a Daddy, Mommy and Boog night. He emphatically chose bowling. But first, dinner at Applebee's where he was able to imbibe in a little Sprite at supper. And that always makes a meal that much cooler. Then off to Town Hall Lanes in Johnston, RI for a round of bowling, they really have a pretty family friendly atmosphere.
I loved the way Boog's head tilted as the bowling ball rolled towards the pins as if it were to will it in the direction he leaned. Every time. It was so cute. He would get so excited to knock them down, run (sometimes fall) and hit me up with a double high five. Daddy didn't get them, since he was flat out too good at bowling. It was a more of a competition for 2nd place between Boogie and me. Thank god for bumpers, not just for him, but for me. I really do suck at bowling. But when I actually tried to suck so he could win, I knocked down more pins. Go figure.
For us, when you have more than one child, we don't always get to spend that special time with them, without the sibling. It makes it worth while to see their joy and silliness without the interference of sibling rivalry. Though they are the best of friends, they can be the worst of enemies. And for the rare instance to have a little fun with just one at a time, I am grateful.
Wednesday, November 9, 2011
#14 I've got at least 30 reasons to go to work
Today, on this beautiful day off, I am in fact thankful for my job. I am grateful that in this economy I have a job. Not only to have a job, but to have one that I actually enjoy.
I have the honor of working with some of the most amazing children. Little ones who challenge me in ways that make me a better person, therapist and mother. They inspire me and help me remember how big the little things are. First steps. First words. Firsts.
These children go through more on a daily basis than I have gone through in my first thirty some odd years of life. They smile when I am goofy. They smile when we play. They smile when we connect. And I am glad to be able to do that with them.
So as much as I may bitch and moan some days about some of the things that come along with any job, I am so grateful and thankful for these kids helping me love what I do.
I have the honor of working with some of the most amazing children. Little ones who challenge me in ways that make me a better person, therapist and mother. They inspire me and help me remember how big the little things are. First steps. First words. Firsts.
These children go through more on a daily basis than I have gone through in my first thirty some odd years of life. They smile when I am goofy. They smile when we play. They smile when we connect. And I am glad to be able to do that with them.
So as much as I may bitch and moan some days about some of the things that come along with any job, I am so grateful and thankful for these kids helping me love what I do.
Tuesday, November 8, 2011
#15 Book Worms
I am incredibly thankful my kids like to read. They take books in the car, in bed and in the bathroom.
It's pretty funny to watch Mudge say he has to go to the bathroom, bypass it completely, go to the book shelf in Boog's room, and choose a story...then head to the head. And he will spend many minutes perusing the words and pictures. Sometimes I can hear him reading versions of the stories to himself, and giggle to myself.
And even this morning, Boog woke up extra early to read three books to get stars for his chart. At 5 am, he read each book joyfully and purposefully. I can picture him when he is older drinking a cup of coffee, doing crosswords and reading the headlines, at 430 in the morning....
Reading for them is Fun Da Mental. They have a sense of pride and accomplishment when they identify new words and sounds (or in Mudge's case letters and pictures). They get a kick out of the simplest stories. And overall just have found a love for the written word. I am truly thankful they do.
It's pretty funny to watch Mudge say he has to go to the bathroom, bypass it completely, go to the book shelf in Boog's room, and choose a story...then head to the head. And he will spend many minutes perusing the words and pictures. Sometimes I can hear him reading versions of the stories to himself, and giggle to myself.
And even this morning, Boog woke up extra early to read three books to get stars for his chart. At 5 am, he read each book joyfully and purposefully. I can picture him when he is older drinking a cup of coffee, doing crosswords and reading the headlines, at 430 in the morning....
Reading for them is Fun Da Mental. They have a sense of pride and accomplishment when they identify new words and sounds (or in Mudge's case letters and pictures). They get a kick out of the simplest stories. And overall just have found a love for the written word. I am truly thankful they do.
Monday, November 7, 2011
#16
Bedtime.
I am thankful for bedtime. Not the fact that the boys are in their beds, all tidy and cozy in their jammies and I am free to decompress.
Actually, I love the bedtime ritual. It is usually the one time of the day I get to spend a few quiet one on one moments with each of the them. We snuggle up in their beds, read stories, and talk about random things that happened during the day. It is often the time I hear Mudge's voice sing the songs he learned at school. Or when Boog tells me about what he wants to earn after he achieves his thirty stars. I love it when Mudge tells me to lay with him just a few more minutes, which I indulge a little. It is just a sweet short time that I learn a little more about them, besides their spazzy crazy selves I see during the lighted hours.
I am incredibly thankful that I have those few moments to share with them, happily.
I am thankful for bedtime. Not the fact that the boys are in their beds, all tidy and cozy in their jammies and I am free to decompress.
Actually, I love the bedtime ritual. It is usually the one time of the day I get to spend a few quiet one on one moments with each of the them. We snuggle up in their beds, read stories, and talk about random things that happened during the day. It is often the time I hear Mudge's voice sing the songs he learned at school. Or when Boog tells me about what he wants to earn after he achieves his thirty stars. I love it when Mudge tells me to lay with him just a few more minutes, which I indulge a little. It is just a sweet short time that I learn a little more about them, besides their spazzy crazy selves I see during the lighted hours.
I am incredibly thankful that I have those few moments to share with them, happily.
Sunday, November 6, 2011
Thankfully Thankful
After being inspired by a fellow Playmaker talking about what she is thankful for until Turkey Day, I felt this to be a good forum for me to do the same. So over the next 17 days I feel like I have to share some of the things for which I am thankful. And I will start with this:
#17. Smart Wool Socks.
I am thankful for Smartwools. Magnificent merino wool heaven in a foot tube. I have pairs with holes in the toes that I cannot bear to toss even though I am trying to slowly transform my sock drawer into an SW only zone. Their cozy goodness is an air cushioned ride for my feet. I have tried the look a likes and not-so-smartwools, but none are "Like a cozy friend named Joycie Terrific."(Yes, P and F reference). On cold days, they keep my tootsies warm, and on hot days, amazingly they cool them down. And yes, even the boys have a few pairs that I found on clearance at REI.
No, they are not in my top 10 of really important things in my life, but they have their place. On my feet. And I spend a lot of time on my feet, so they are noted.
Gobble Gobble
#17. Smart Wool Socks.
I am thankful for Smartwools. Magnificent merino wool heaven in a foot tube. I have pairs with holes in the toes that I cannot bear to toss even though I am trying to slowly transform my sock drawer into an SW only zone. Their cozy goodness is an air cushioned ride for my feet. I have tried the look a likes and not-so-smartwools, but none are "Like a cozy friend named Joycie Terrific."(Yes, P and F reference). On cold days, they keep my tootsies warm, and on hot days, amazingly they cool them down. And yes, even the boys have a few pairs that I found on clearance at REI.
No, they are not in my top 10 of really important things in my life, but they have their place. On my feet. And I spend a lot of time on my feet, so they are noted.
Gobble Gobble
Thursday, November 3, 2011
Ice Cream for Supper
You wouldn't know it, but my husband is a big mush pot.
Last year, at this time, a child that he knew suddenly passed away. And in that moment, he went into his calendar and set a repeat event: Ice Cream for Supper.
I didn't think of it until he told me the other day that Thursday night was his night to make supper. And later on he came home with ice cream and whipped cream. He filled me in and told me not to tell the boys.
Tonight, after he came home, he made ice cream sundaes for supper. The boys of course thought it was the best night ever, and Mudge even ate most of his supper without fuss.
But ice cream for supper was not for nothing. It is something he created to remind us to let the kids be kids, hold them tighter, and smile a little more often since you never know what may happen.
We both know too many little ones who are no longer here, and we are thankful everyday we have our boys, as crazy as they make life sometimes. I don't always remember to do what Brad Paisley says, "Live for the little moments". So on days like these, I am thankful my husband does.
Wednesday, November 2, 2011
If only I had thought of this.....
I love the internet for connecting, but more so for finding new ideas to try with my kids. I came across a couple of really visit-worthy websites with cool ideas to try:
Pintrest is a share site or pin board. I found these that I soooo want to make
Jello Straw Worms as posted from....
The Idea Room is a great resource for DIY paints and doughs of all sorts, marshmallow blow guns, and other keepsakes.
Author, Valerie helps you remember what it is like to be playful for the cheap with activities like cardboard box forts, photo puppet, and straw beading.
The Author of Make and Takes is after the hearts of my family with simple crafts including Angry Birds pom poms. Love it!
Tuesday, November 1, 2011
Halloween with my Spirited Child.... And I don't mean ghost
So our expectations of this year's Halloween were like the many before. Our close friends would come over and we would trick or treat around the block, happily, with minimal issues. But....
When you have a spirited child who is incredibly sensitive emotionally, what you think is the smallest and innocent detail will throw him into a friggin tizzy. So last night when a family friend arrived with a child in a Captain America suit, Boog thought it was his little best friend. In that moment, he was ecstatically happy. But the following moment was met with despair and confusion as he learned it was not his dearest best buddy. The disappointment overwhelmed his as he stomped away in tears, ripping off his mantis arms and wings. He huddled himself in the corner of the door sobbing.
At this point, we urged the rest of the Halloween crew to go ahead. I took Mudge while Kyle waited with UB and Boog to settle down. My heart sank. It reminded me of preschool graduation, his emotional up and downs. So Mudge and I trotted off (reluctantly) and did two houses before calling Kyle to find out if they were on their way.
Mudge and I waited for Boog and Dad at that second house. And that was as far as we got. Boog, in all of his green buggy glory could not "get it into his head" that the other boy in the costume was not his friend. His "mind just won't let it go." Again sobbing, he "just wanted to go home". So I passed the Bull Ant Mudge to Kyle, and walked back to the house with my sad little insect. We spent the rest of the evening chilling out, watching a show, and reading books till he was able to "make [his] brain feel better."
So as excited he was up until that point of the night, it only takes one switch to change a spirited child's mood. Sometimes you can prevent or decrease the length of time, and sometimes not. Sometimes you just have to roll with the punches. As intensely as he loves and plays and learns, he also intensely responds. I just fear when he eventually has his first girlfriend that breaks up with him.... Until then, we'll just keep supporting him as best we can.
When you have a spirited child who is incredibly sensitive emotionally, what you think is the smallest and innocent detail will throw him into a friggin tizzy. So last night when a family friend arrived with a child in a Captain America suit, Boog thought it was his little best friend. In that moment, he was ecstatically happy. But the following moment was met with despair and confusion as he learned it was not his dearest best buddy. The disappointment overwhelmed his as he stomped away in tears, ripping off his mantis arms and wings. He huddled himself in the corner of the door sobbing.
At this point, we urged the rest of the Halloween crew to go ahead. I took Mudge while Kyle waited with UB and Boog to settle down. My heart sank. It reminded me of preschool graduation, his emotional up and downs. So Mudge and I trotted off (reluctantly) and did two houses before calling Kyle to find out if they were on their way.
Mudge and I waited for Boog and Dad at that second house. And that was as far as we got. Boog, in all of his green buggy glory could not "get it into his head" that the other boy in the costume was not his friend. His "mind just won't let it go." Again sobbing, he "just wanted to go home". So I passed the Bull Ant Mudge to Kyle, and walked back to the house with my sad little insect. We spent the rest of the evening chilling out, watching a show, and reading books till he was able to "make [his] brain feel better."
So as excited he was up until that point of the night, it only takes one switch to change a spirited child's mood. Sometimes you can prevent or decrease the length of time, and sometimes not. Sometimes you just have to roll with the punches. As intensely as he loves and plays and learns, he also intensely responds. I just fear when he eventually has his first girlfriend that breaks up with him.... Until then, we'll just keep supporting him as best we can.
Monday, October 31, 2011
Happy Halloowwweeeen!
I just wanted to wish all of you a safe and fun Halloween. And remember, don't do what I am doing: dress your kid in all black. What the hell was I thinking? Anyway, get out the glow sticks and flashlights. And get ready to haul the kids and bags in tow.
And just to get in the spirit, here is a rendition of a story Boog recited for us last year, word for word, that he must have listened to at school. Don't mind, it is black since he was in bed.
And just to get in the spirit, here is a rendition of a story Boog recited for us last year, word for word, that he must have listened to at school. Don't mind, it is black since he was in bed.
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